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Library · Guide A practical text-first guide to asking, listening, deciding, and protecting privacy. Before a decision State the purpose, the setting, and what is optional. Ask specific questions instead of relying on implication. Identify limits, uncertainty, and how anyone can pause. During an interaction Check in when the context changes. Make a refusal easy […]
Library · Checklist A public planning checklist for organizers who want clarity without unnecessary collection. Publish before attendance Purpose, audience, and conduct expectations. Accessibility information that is actually known. A public contact channel and the limits of it. A clear photography and recording boundary. Prepare the space Identify who is responsible for event decisions. Provide […]
Library · Safety guide Pressure, urgency, secrecy, and requests for sensitive material are reasons to pause—not proof that you owe someone an answer. Watch for pressure tactics Claims that a credential, role, invitation, or payment removes your right to refuse. Demands for identity documents, private images, addresses, or money through informal channels. Pressure to move […]
Library · Reading list A method for choosing material thoughtfully rather than a list of borrowed claims. Start with resources that identify their author, date, purpose, evidence, and limits. Compare perspectives rather than treating a single piece as an authority on every community, jurisdiction, or experience. Questions for any resource Who wrote it, and for […]